Relationship Advice: Do’s And Nevers For Girls

July 10, 2011
Author: KLTBrown

Here’s a list of quick “Do’s” and “Nevers” for girls looking to build a lasting relationship. These are just some conversation pieces that come up in our normal conversation that might be a memory jogger for you girls out there looking to strike it big in your relationships. Here’s the quick list. Click the link for more relationship advice for women.

1. Do communicate with him.

BUT Never let him fall silent. Get him to talk.

2.  Do be honest with him.

BUT Never hide anything from him. Let him know how you really think and feel.

3. Do give him space if he needs it. You don’t want to be too clingy.

BUT Never give him too much were he feels he can do anything and it won’t affect you. Let him know there are limits.

4. Do remind him of how much you care for him, and how much he means to you because believe it or not they love to be admired just as much as we do.

BUT Never let him get away with treating you bad or disrespectfully in a way that either made you upset or uncomfortable. I don’t care how much you like him or how hard it took you to get him!! It will only get worst if you don’t speak up about it.

5. Do let him hang out with his buddies. Also let him pick his own friends, not you. If there is trust in this relationship you shouldn’t have to worry because you know in your heart that its you that he wants.

BUT Never let him wear the pants! Ladies now-a-days times are changing and sometimes a man needs to be put in his place every once in awhile, otherwise he’ll think he’ll have a say so in everything.

6. Do encourage him and motivate him to be better. This will show that you really care about him and his future. He’ll love that you’ll support him in just about anything he does.

BUT Never try to change him. You fell in love with him the way he looks so why try to change that? It will only make him confused and feel out of place. It’ll make trying to be with you a challenge and it shouldn’t have to be that way. Love him for him. Not his shirt or his amazing body. lol

Ahh and lastly….

7. Do tell him you love him but only when the time is right.

BUT Never rush it. Be patient. Let love come to you first. For now enjoy the moment of being with him. You never know, it could lead up to more than that!

Hope it helps,

Ladies, I appreciate your comments and additions if you have some.  Guys, I hope you are thinking of ways to counter this. Until next time…

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