Avoiding Intimidation In A Relationship

January 23, 2010
Author: KLTBrown

Intimidation by definition is the fear or threat of the negative use of power or control against you. The insecurity of many  lead them into the condition where they have these fears and are threatened by their mate or partner.  Here are a few marriage tips to help you avoid being intimidated by your partner.

Remember, whatever the case may be whether it’s higher income,  more education, better skills, better family background and status, physical size and strength, the list goes on there’s not reason to be intimidated.  But the saying  says “perfect love cast out fear”. If you have proper love for your mate or partner and you are SECURE in your shared love, i.e. you know he/she loves you and would do nothing to harm you, there will be no reason for  intimidation.  Instead there should be celebration when the partner excels and succeeds.

My advice is always to ensure that the roles of both partners in a relationship, especially marriage relationship,  are not tied to an income level or anything else that is subject to change. Rather it should be predetermined prior to the marriage, and best to be based on the unchangeable.  I recommend the biblical roles. The Man is the provider and the Woman is the nurturer. The term “Provider” does not only refer to money, husbands provide other things essential to a marriage such as leadership, protection,spiritual covering, etc… Likewise the term “nurturer” does not mean door mat, maid, servant or any  other demeaning title. A man or woman who knows there place in the relationship and is secure in his relationship will not be intimidated by their partners success. For more information visit our website at www.prelationship.com.

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  1. INVS Logistics Says:

    You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. (Sahili gözden kaybetme cesaretini gösteremezseniz okyanusu geçemezsiniz.) – Christopher Columbus


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