Relationship extremes are common in many relationships today. So what do you do when your relationship goes from one extreme to the other? One day you are living in the penthouse. Everything is going great and everyone is happy.  Then all of a sudden, before you know it, you are in the . Everything goes wrong and your relationship stinks. Just like an outhouse.

The question is always, What happened? How did your relationship go from one extreme to the other? And what can you do to avoid these drastic changes? Well I just want to inform you that people don’t change that quickly, so you can’t really blame yourself or your partner. But situations and circumstances are the things that change so rapidly. So what can you do to avoid these extreme swings in your relationship?

The one relationship tip I can give to anyone experiencing the extreme relationship swings, is to REMEMBER. The number one reason people experience these relationship extremes is that they fail to remember. They fail to remember the path they took to get to each extreme. They fail to remember the path to the penthouse and they fail to remember the path to the outhouse. In addition, they fail to remember the view from the penthouse and they fail to remember the smell of the outhouse.  If they remember the path to each of the extremes they would quickly realize when they are headed in the wrong direction. They would quickly change their actions, behavior, and their words which usually set their course either to the penthouse or the outhouse.

So when you find yourself in this kind of relationship swing stop and take a moment to remember. Remember the path to the penthouse and how it felt to be in that place in your relationship. Then adjust yourself accordingly so you stay on that path. Remember the path to the outhouse and remember the smell. Remember how bad it felt and adjust yourself accordingly.

If you do this your relationship will soon even out and the swings will become far less extreme. As you get better and better at making the necessary adjustments you will find it easier and easier to sty out off the outhouse.

For additional information, check out the articles at prelationshipinfo.com. If you’ve experienced this in your relationship and want to share your experience, feel free to post a comment.

Hope it helps

 

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