Love Relationships And Your Personality

February 25, 2009
Author: KLTBrown

Did you know that your love relationships and your personality are directly connected? You will ultimately attract people who are just like you. This fact makes the issue of relationship compatibility a vital one when looking for love.

Make A List..

Relationships and your personality must match in order to have a wholesome union. Compatibility is often hard to achieve but, it is very essential and worth considering. When looking for love, you often have this list of wants in your head that will describe the kind of girl or guy you want. We always suggest that singles have a real list written down with specifics about the kind of person they want.  This exercise programs the mind and causes you to attract the person with the exact qualities you have listed.  It also provides a checklist as you search for the right person. The need to have a list comes from the realization that compatibility is essential. When you are playing your own matchmaker, you probably know best what you like and do not like. Therefore, there are certain pointers that will guide you to have a realistic list for a real person who will have all the attributes you are looking for. Remember, MAKE A LIST!

Personalities Don’t Change..

Keep in mind that relationships and your personality are sisters. Therefore you must also strive to have certain qualities for someone to take a keen interest in you. When it comes to our personality, we can only enhance what we already have. It comes naturally.  So  realize that you can never change somebody and because of this, you need to take compatibility seriously. You might have heard it being said that people change when they enter into long term relationships. This may be true of their behavior and attitudes about things but their innate personality remains the same.  When you really take the time to learn someone’s personality, you should know what their strengths are as well as weaknesses. Many singles often date in a mask. They may not even realize that they are wearing a mask. You want to be your best so that you can make the right impression. This is perfectly normal but, there reaches a point where you open up for your real qualities to be seen. Relationships and your personality must match; even though not a perfect match.

Know thyself..
Before you start the process of dating, you need to examine what your personality really is. For example, you should consider whether you are a wild or conservative person and the list goes on. Then, you need to look at all those traits that are going to compliment you. When you know exactly what you want, you can begin the process of dating. You will definitely not find perfect singles; you are not perfect either. If you are into astrology, you can look at the stars and see people who are best suited for you. Whichever way you choose, know that your relationships and your personality can never be divorced; they go together. In other words, you can look into your personality to provide answers for your relationship. When you find a suitable mate, work on your imperfections as you strive for excellence.



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