Major Relationship Problems And How To Solve Them
Relationship problems cannot just ruin love life, but also lead to mental, physical, and financial trouble. Relationship problems can be minor, such as an annoying habit you cannot stand in your partner, or it can something as major as alcoholism and abuse. Somewhere in the middle are those nagging little problems that couples frequently bicker over but cannot overlook without causing the relationship to collapse. These problems include issues such as intimacy, unfair demands, and relationships outside their partnership, cheating, and arguments over money, jealousy, and the desire to maintain control over a partner’s finances and social life.
Here are some common relationship problems and their solution:
- Lack of communication: Miscommunication can cause problems in most relationships. If you feel you have to work on your communication problems, start by setting aside a few minutes everyday for talking about things that are often swept under the carpet – things such as bills, kids, their school, or your in-laws as best discussed with patience.
- Disagreement over finances: Money is a major cause of fights between couples. While earning more by taking up another job or investing wisely is always an option, start by exploring alternatives such as saving and budgeting.
- Intimacy: Lack of physical intimacy may not be a cause of relationship problems. Many experts are of the opinion that zero intimacy is more of a result than cause of relationship problems. Find out the underlying cause (hard day at work, stress, lack of communication, too many chores) and you might be able to fix this problem.
- Being taken for granted: Once ‘comfort’ sets in, one or both people in a relationship may feel the old chemistry waning and may miss the “good old days”. Many couples complain about being taken for granted by their partners. Try to make time for just the two of you, go out on dates, plan a weekend together, or indulge in activities both of you enjoy.
Relationship problems will not go away if you were to just ignore them hoping they will vanish. If nothing else works, try counseling.
