How to Break Up Without Hurting the Other Person
When a relationship is beginning, everything is exciting. You cannot wait to see your girlfriend or boyfriend in the evening, during the weekends and over the holidays and it feels amazing to know that he or she feels the same way. The excitement and happiness of a relationship can overpower everything else, in fact, you find some people being blinded by love to the extent of forgetting their own. However, nothing stays forever. Things change as couples tend to know each other better
Some people settle into comfortable relationships while others drift apart. If the relationship is not working, the noble thing to do is to end it. It might turn difficult but there are better ways on how to break up with your loved one without causing a lot of pain. Some people avoid the unpleasant task of starting difficult conversations, while others have a “just get over it” attitude, but neither of these approaches is best. Avoidance only worsens the problem and may end up hurting the other person more.
You can devise your own way on how to break up without hurting the other party, but below are also some tips on how you can go about it: End the relationship as soon as you realize it is not working out. Break up in person but not through messages. Be honest about your feelings and the reason for break up. Take responsibility for your decision. Listen to the other party without defending yourself. Finally, break off cleanly.
