Dating Tips – Avoiding Confusion
Here’s some to the point dating tips for women that are presented from a man’s point of view and cut to the heart of the frustration women have when it comes to getting a relationship started and overcoming the confusion that often occurs when signals are crossed between a guy and a girl.
If your interested in going out with a guy keep in mind that guys can get rather confused rather easily. It makes no difference whether a guy is a genius or a run of the mill football player, he can still get very confused very easily.
As such you may want to consider making things simple. We call this the KISS method: Keep It Simple Stupid!!
First of all, if your interested in a guy, you’ve got to let him know! They’re far less likely to act if they think your not interested in them. If you are, let him know, use glances, head movements, fidgets, if they’re interested, they’ll often be watching for these kind of signals. (though they can be are pretty dumb, they might not always pick up on it right away.)
If a guy asks you for a date, you’ve got a pretty clear choice, either yes or no. We’ll get to the yes in a minute, but if your going to say no there’s got to be a reason right? First off, you’re not interested. If that’s the case, make it clear. After all, if you don’t like a guy, do you really want him to keep asking you out? Well there’s a good chance he will, unless he knows you don’t like him. (they can be dumb, it sometimes takes them a while to figure this stuff out) If you DO like him, but you can’t go for some reason, let him know, give your reason, and ask if you can do it another time? Or, swear that your not trying to get out of a date, you just really have to do (insert important activity here) and continue talking to him. If you turn him down for a date, and continue to have a long conversation, he can be pretty certain that your interested, just unable to make that date.
If you don’t like something he’s doing (something he says, something he does, or intimate behaviors) just tell him straight out, OR raise the eyebrows at him and frown, he can usually understand that one.
Just remember, guys can be incredibly STUPID at times. They often haven’t a clue what you are doing, and sending subtle clues often just adds to their confusion. Remember: Keep It Simple Stupid!!
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