Getting Back in the Dating Game
Breaking up is sometimes hard to deal with, irrespective of whether you are strong or not. It’s can be even more challenging to get back into the dating game after a breakup. The initial problem is that you have to be psychologically fit to start dating. Try these steps for getting over a breakup and getting yourself psychologically fit so you can find your new love:
Unfinished business from the prior relationship won’t let you move on? Well, in order to overcome this obstacle you should wrap up and close out all remaining business from your past relationship. Understand that it is important and sometimes necessary for you experience all the grief and other emotions which resulted from the breakup. Remember it does take time to get it out of your system but it is good to complete the process so you can have a fresh start. Never date for revenge, to prove your eligibility or to get rid of your loneliness. Date only when you are emotionally unencumbered by your previous relationship. Don’t bring the baggage from the previous relationship into the new one.
Make sure that your career and home are in order and that you are maintaining a healthy emotional relationship with your friends and family. Never isolate yourself from your family and friends. It only makes things worse.
See to it that you feel sane, happy and that your behavior is honest and open, as there is nothing more attractive or sexier than a successful, healthy [both physical and emotional] and happy person.
Get a makeover. For an instance get a daring but stylish haircut, color your hair, pamper yourself with a pedicure, manicure and also a foot massage, lose the excess weight and get yourself some new clothes. When you look good you feel good as well. Don’t forget how much you have to offer the world and what great catch you really are. Remind yourself how special you are and that your relationship may have failed but not your life.
Make a strategic plan to find your partner and make a decision follow it. For example
* Attend all real world parties you are invited to.
* Throw a party, and insist your guests to bring a single friend along with them to the party.
* Join clubs.
* Go to dances or any other activity that you are interested in.
* Flirt.
* Date as many eligible singles as possible.
* Post up an alluring profile on any dating website.
Come out as a single person, tell your family that you are ready to date, casually tell your neighbors and friends that you are willing to start dating and make sure you remove anything which would give the wrong idea [wedding ring, pictures of your ex, etc]. Last but not least become friends with some of your dates. Friends have friends of their own, who may be your future life partner. And stay in the dating game until you find a relationship that you desire.
