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When it come to business and financial goals, they are usually clearly defined and we take concrete measures to achieve them, however most have never clearly defined our goals when it comes to the qualities we look for in a lifelong partner. In the vast amount of relationship tips and advice that is currently circulating, these 5 separate steps summarize the steps required to make our relationship dreams and goals a reality, and that is just as important, if not more so, then our business and financial life goals.

Techniques for the design and implementation of the objectives of the relationship is similar to the traditional business and financial objectives. Experts in the science of success know the brain is an organism that is goal-seeking in nature. Whatever the message sent to the subconscious mind, the mind can work tirelessly to achieve.

Step 1: Define
Get clarity on your relationship goals by writing them out in detail, as specifically as possible with a desired, realistic time-line.  Remember, vague goals will produce vague results. Instead of simply stating: I would like spend my life with the right man, become clear on the character traits that you absolutely have to have in a husband and your relationship goal and write it down in as much detail as possible. A clearly defined goal could be: I will be married to a man of high integrity, who is emotionally mature, respects and loves me, and who is professionally accomplished, by December 2012.

Step 2: Believe
You must believe wholeheartedly that your goals  can be achieved.  Once your goals are written down,  read them two to three times every day. This daily discipline will activate the power of your desire.

Step 3: Visualize
Visualization is another powerful way to reinforce your goal upon your subconscious mind. You may want to create a vision book and illustrate your written goal with pictures and images that depict your goal as already achieved. You can also play your vision like a movie in your head by simply closing your eyes, relaxing and creating the mental images of your desired future.

Step 4: Focus
You must learn to focus on your goals daily. If  your goal is to attract a handsome, athletic and accomplished man, you are not likely to meet him sitting at your apartment or hanging out at your girlfriends house.  In order to attract the right person, focus on being the best you can be, then determine where the type of person you are hoping to meet would most likely spend their free time.  Athletes work out at the gym, rather than hitting the local bars after work.

Step 5: Take Action
The final step is to take action.  Nothing happens until you take action. If you are haven’t gotten over your last relationship, get some counseling or relationship coaching. If you haven’t had a date in the last 9 months, join some social group. Most importantly, quit waiting and procrastinating. Do something and do it now. Take action and 2010 will likely be your best year ever.

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