Ready For A Serious Relationship?
So you’ve decided that you want to settle down and get serious about your relationship. You may be looking for someone who just may be around throughout your lifetime. Here are a few dating tips and things to keep in mind to make your journey a little easier.
1)Set realistic and achievable goals. Make your intentions clear. Maybe you want to make two or three new good friends in the next year. That’s a good place to start.
2)Define your criteria. What exactly do you want? Make a list of things you want in your soon to be partner. Be specific and thorough.
3)Know your limits. List your non-negotiables, the things that just wont tolerate. Don’t be afraid to draw the line.
4)Interview well, ask good questions and wait and see if their actions match their words. Remember time will tell if the person is really who they pretend to be. Take note of any signs of contradiction.
5)Dont compromise or settle (even if you’re bored or desperate, you’ll be sorry you did!).
6)Be truthful, even when its uncomfortable, better now than later.
7)Set your boundaries regarding money, men, and all things sacred!
8)Don’t be selfish in your approach. Give as much as you get and make sure it flows the other way too!
9)Relax. Take your time, no need to rush. Don’t be in such a hurry to make things work. Getting to know a new friend is fun and should be savored, and trust is built over time
10) Most of all, be real, be yourself, and have some fun!
And remember, great relationships, including friendships, begin within! Be happy and enjoy your life. Don’t wait until you’ve found your friend to enjoy yourself. Enjoy yourself and let them join you while you enjoy them.
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