Tips To Enhance Your Relationship
The most important element to focus on in a relationship is the interaction between the partners during their normal conversations. Many times individuals don’t realize the amount of negativity that’s portrayed in the course of their normal day to day conversations. The number one tip to ensure healthy relationships IS the following:
STOP ALL SHAME, BLAME AND CRITISM.
Be clear, specific and positive in your conversation and always remember to express appreciation for your partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel competent—that they make a contribution and that it is noticed. Women need to feel special and secure in their relationships.
Change you mindset from a negative one to a positive one. “Change from a critical habit of mind, in which you’re very involved with your partner’s mistakes, to a positive one, in which you catch him doing something right.”
When your relationship starts to break down, remember to call AAA:an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. Remember to say you’re sorry for what you’ve said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. Immediately offer a hug, a kiss—some meaningful gesture of warmth and affection. Pledge to do something that matters to your partner. Then take action and do it.
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