Your Happiness – Your Responsibility
There are many people who are oblivious to this often allusive and hidden reason for the majority of our relationship problems. It has to do with the simple concept of being happy. Taking the responsibility for your own happiness and not depending on someone else.
Many times a potential soul mate is driven away because of the pressure they feel to make you happy. Deep down on the inside, they’re afraid that no matter how hard they try, they will fail at making you happy.
This pressure that they feel comes from the fact that deep down on the inside you are hoping and counting on the fact that they will make you happy.
Wake up and take responsibility for your own happiness. Your partner picks up on this by the clues you send him even if you don’t know you’re sending them.
They may not be able to say what’s wrong because they really don’t know but they know that they feel like their doomed to failure. So of course they wants out.
You may not be aware that you’re making them feel that it’s up to them to make you happy and that you’re making them responsible for your happiness but that’s exactly how you may be making them feel. It could be by the things you do and say or by what you don’t do or say. Especially when they are not around.
One thing for you to remember is that it’s ultimately up to you to make yourself happy. It’s not up to them. No one can give you inner self worth. A man or woman can’t do this for you. It’s all up to you to work on that.
For example, your man can tell you every day that you’re beautiful or handsome, but deep down, if you don’t believe you’re beautiful, those words from your partner will not make you believe it. And if you’re always negative about life, or if you always feel like people are out to get you, then no one can make you happy.
Remember, how you feel on the inside is just as important as what you say or do. In fact, it’s even more important.
Would you like to make your partner truly happy? Then a great gift you can give them is to take the pressure off their shoulders and be the one responsible for your happiness. Hope it helps.
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