You have come to the conclusion that the only way that you’re going to get your ex girlfriend back is if she falls in love with you again. She might say that she doesn’t love you anymore but that just doesn’t make sense. What can you do to make her feel love for you again and forgive you and want to get back together with you? If you can just make her fall for you again then you know that your breakup will be over.
If it was as easy as sending her some flowers or writing her a sappy love letter then this would be a piece of cake. If proclaiming your love for her and promising that things would be different would bring her back then you would do that. You would do anything to get her to fall in love with you again but a woman’s heart is just a little more complicated than that.
The problem is that women are just a little bit different than us guys. They think differently and make decisions differently. You might be able to rationalize things and think logically when it comes time to make a decision but your girlfriend makes most of her decisions based upon how she feels. Women make decisions based upon emotions. This is the direction that you have to head if you hope to make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again.
You might think that jealousy will help you to get her back. Jealousy can be a very powerful tool and many women are prone to jealousy, making her feel jealousy can end your bid to win her back rather quickly. Many guys have tried this and found that they wished they hadn’t because it’s awfully difficult to undo a woman’s emotions and the jealousy card can be a dangerous one to play.
Just think of it this way. If she is already upset with you, says that she doesn’t love you anymore and says that she doesn’t want to see you or talk to you, what makes you think that appearing to move on is going to somehow make your girlfriend fall in love with you again? You will get one of two reactions. Either she will become angry because you simply moved on or she will be happy for you now that you’ve found someone new. She will be happy that you aren’t pathetically holding on to some dream of getting her back and she will take this as a sign that it’s ok for her to find someone else. If you goal is to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again then you probably don’t want her getting a new boyfriend, right?
I know that you want to get your ex girlfriend back as soon as possible. Every day without her is driving you crazy and you just want to end your breakup as quickly as possible but you’re going to have to be a little patient. Pushing isn’t going to help matters. You’re gonig to have to remain cool and calm and be more patient than you might want to be at times. If you are serious about getting her back then you can do this. You can be patient and back off a little bit in order to help improve your chances of winning her back and making her fall in love with you again.
If she is dead set against getting back together and you’re getting a lot of negative emotions from her right now then you should back off for a very short period of time. Take some time for yourself. You need to prepare yourself and get your life back. You need to at least appear that you have yourself together. You need to take care of yourself, get plenty of sleep so you can be on top of your game and pull yourself together. After all, when you first won her heart it probably didn’t take a whole lot of convincing. You didn’t have to talk her into things once you got the ball rolling. She fell in love with you because of who you were and not because you begged her to fall in love with you.
A combination of letting a little time heal your relationship as well as you getting your life back together and then dropping the hammer on her is what will get her back. Knowing how to play her emotions and make her feel that love that she once felt for you again is your key to not just getting her back but making her be the one that wants to get back together. It is a simple matter of doing the things that will warm her heart while avoiding bringing out those emotions that will push her away. You already made her fall in love with you once, now it’s a simple matter of damage control and turning up the heat to make her fall in love with you again.