Four Steps For Obtaining Real Love Relationships
Let’s begin with a question that really gets to the heart of the matter. If most of us have never experienced either giving or receiving Real Love, how do we learn to recognize it and how do we begin to make the choices that will bring it into our lives? This can happen for all of us if we follow these four simple process steps to Real Love relationships.
Step 1. TRUTH
Only when we set aside our getting behavior (getting people to like us) and our protecting behavior (Protecting ourselves from being hurt) and tell the truth about ourselves can we create the opportunity for others to see who we really are.
Step 2. SEEN
Only when we are willing to step out and be seen for who we really are will others be willing to do the same. Real people attract real people.
Step 3. ACCEPTED
Only when we are seen for who we are can we feel genuinely accepted and only then can we believe that other people truly care about our happiness and well being.
Step 4. LOVE
Only when we tell the truth about ourselves, especially about our mistakes and flaws, can we feel unconditionally accepted and loved. Then and only then can we share the love we have with others and participate in a loving relationship.
As you learn more about the characteristics of Real Love, begin to tell the truth about yourself, and experience the giving and receiving of unconditional acceptance, it will become increasingly easier for you to recognize and find Real Love.
