Relationship Tips for Women – What You MUST Know About Men
Found this featured topic from Bob Grant and Relationship Headquarters. Thought I would share it with you women. Great read, great topic, great job Bob Grant.
Every woman, and I mean every woman, uses their emotions when they bond with a man. In fact, the more intense a man makes a woman feel; the more likely she will bond with him. Some men are aware of this and use
it to take advantage of women. What most women don’t know is that men do not bond emotionally to a woman through the intensity of their feelings. Men bond over time, regardless of how intense their emotions are in a
given moment. If you were to obtain an instruction manual to a man’s heart it would read like this:
Men are quickly aroused but slow to bond.
Men do not bond through their feelings because they don’t use their feelings as often as women do. In fact, when a man is full of emotion, they often say very dumb things…
“I love you.” (When they have only known a woman for a few weeks)
“I’m going to leave my wife for you” (Which rarely happens)
“I love Classical Music” (When he can really take it or leave it)
Many women think the key to being captivating to a man is to arouse his passion. While this is important, those women that rely on simply having an intense connection with a man will most likely find that after a few weeks – sometimes months- the relationships has ended. Often, the woman is then desperate to find out how to get him back.
If women only understood – really understood – that men don’t have the ability to bond with intense emotions like women do; they would know how to keep their relationship from progressing too quickly. Those that do
learn this truth are the ones that men describe this way; “There’s something about her,” and they find a way to make her their own.
Looking for your comments ladies. Hope it helps!
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