Biggest Secrets About Men & Commitment
I see so many people asking questions about how to get a men to commit to a relationship. Most of the time the women are frustrated when they’ve done everything they know to do (which is usually too much) and their man still shies away from commitment. They think maybe he just doesn’t know how to communicate his commitment and they assume he is committed. (Big mistake). Or often they think it’s something they haven’t done or something they haven’t done enough of that will win his heart and get him to commit.
One of the biggest secrets that most women don’t understand is that a man who has difficulty with commitment is also a man that is afraid of being abandoned. Women think that they are the only ones concerned with security in a relationship. They fail to realize that men are also concerned with security and will often think of vulnerability when faced with the decision of commitment. Will I go through all they steps to open up and become vulnerable just to see it all go down the tubes in the future. They may be basing this on a previous experience or the experience of a close friend.
Either way, women must understand that the only way to get him to commit is to alleviate his fears and let him know that through it all you are committed to him. Follow this link more relationship advice or go to www.Prelationship.com
