Perfect Relationship Info

Found a great article from Mimi Tanner with some good relationship advice for women about using the phone and the dreaded first phone call. Wanted to share it with you and hoping for some feedback.

What do you say when that cute guy you’ve had your eye on calls you? You may feel nervous and excited when he calls, even if you’re an adult, but that’s okay. It’s normal to feel like that. After all, this could be the start of a new relationship and you don’t want to do anything that might jeopardize that.

But it’s important to realize that this phone call isn’t the guy’s way of saying he’s in love with you.  Right now, he’s exploring the concept that he may like you. That’s it. He may like you. He may not. So try not to get ahead of yourself and picture the two of you walking down the aisle and having babies because it’s not going to happen – yet.

So what should you do when he calls you? Well, if you like him, make sure he knows that by the tone of your voice. Be friendly and pleasant and try to have a smile in your voice. And most importantly, be yourself. He’ll be able to pick up on the fact that you like him, and right now, that’s all you have to do.

If you want to go out on a date with him, let him do the asking, however tempted you may be to ask him first. Guys like pursuing the girl, so allow yourself to be pursued. And if he does ask you out, don’t accept a last minute date. If he asks you out for tonight or tomorrow night, say you’re busy (even if it’s not true) but you’re available in a few days time or next week. Let him know that although you like him, you also have a life.

By doing this he will learn to ask you out at least a few days in advance, and realize you’re not the kind of girl he can ask out for last minute dates.

Remember to enjoy the phone conversation with him and don’t forget to let him know at the end of the conversation that you enjoyed it. Just as he’s exploring the concept of liking you, you’re also deciding whether you really like him. Just be friendly to him on the phone and let things develop naturally. You’ll be glad you did.”

Hope it helps…