How To Make That Magical Connection And Get Him To Commit
You’ve been seeing each other for a while and it seems that, with each moment spent, the two of you are getting closer on all levels. You’re pretty certain that he might be “the one” but, yet, every time the subject of making things permanent comes up he seems to hesitate or even pull back. So you find yourself asking: How can I get him to commit to me? I thought I had met my soul mate.
Men are heavily influenced by your acceptance or rejection and he wasn’t anticipating you to be the one to bring commitment up. He might be the type who just hasn’t thought about it yet or hasn’t opened up to you even though he has been thinking about it for quite some time. He doesn’t know if you will accept or reject him which could be the main cause of the reason for him not bringing it up. Below are some tips that will help you put that magical spell on him to get him to commit and take the relationship to the next step.
1. Pick the right time – This is one of the most important things to think about. Pick a time when you are both in a good mood and the place is quiet with no distracting energy around either of you like TV or a football game. Then ask him if he is interested in a committed relationship with you.
2. Seeing is believing and vice versa – Sometimes the non-verbal messages we receive carry more information that those filled with words. When the two of you are together pay attention to his body language. If you notice that he seems to physically pull back whenever the “c” word comes up, don’t be afraid to ask him how he feels. On the other end of the spectrum, if he seems to be opening up his “space” to include you more and more, tell him how good that feels and how nice it would be if it were for a longer period of time.
3. Owning your feelings – This is your best opportunity to let him know how much you really value him in this relationship and what he means to you. This may calm down any stress he has about the subject of commitment and chances are he will tell you his truth if you tell him yours.
4. The time is right – Even if it turns out that he is unready, unwilling or unable to give you the answer you were hoping for, and you find you can’t get him to commit, at the very least you can make a realistic decision whether to stay with things as they are or move on to find that special spiritual link that your heart calls for.
Making a decision to commit yourself, heart and soul, to another person can be the most magical thing a person can do. Yet the process is not magic but merely the art of using your own senses and feelings to navigate the uncertain waters of romance to the blissful shores of forever.
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