How to Avoid Giving Men The Wrong Impression
When it comes to giving the wrong impression there is one thing that believe it or not nearly all women do. Yet, they never realize they are doing it. I try not to make such an issue of it but part of the reason that I point this behavior out is that it actually comes across as unattractive to men. So what is that women do that give men the wrong impression and make them unattractive?
Most women don’t receive compliments well.
Actually, a more honest statement would be that most women are terrible at receiving compliments. They don’t want others to think they are arrogant, snobby or even worse – a b###ch. But in an attempt not to appear conceited, they fail to understand the impression they give to a man.
Here is one of the most important relationship tips for women. Ladies, learn how to properly receive compliments. When a man compliments you, he’s actually giving you something – like a flower or a gift. If you minimize his words, he feels like you are belittling his gift. If you do that enough times, you’ll train him not to give you these gifts or compliments at all. In effect, you’re telling him you don’t believe the nice thing he said about you. He won’t think you’re being humble, instead, he’ll soon believe that he was mistaken to believe or think it himself.
So what should you do?
When a man compliments you, do these three simple things:
1) Stop and look him in the eyes,
2) Smile (A genuine smile is the most effective)
3) Simply say “thank you.”
Oh, I realize it sounds simple, and it is. But if you begin doing this, you’ll find that it becomes a natural response. At first, receiving a compliment can be unnerving. It takes practice. But from a man’s perspective, it conveys confidence and here’s a tip ladies, it’s very attractive!
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