Save the Drama For Your Mama: Tips for Women
Here are some tips for women who may be looking for reasons why her man is being so distant. One of the biggest mistakes women make that causes men to leave is to overload the relationship with drama. Women tend to bring too much “drama” into the relationship. Men want to feel good and want to be around a woman that makes them feel good about themselves and a woman who feels good about her own life in general.
Did you know that a woman’s smile is considered by men to be one of the most sexy things about a woman (as confirmed by a university study wherein they surveyed hundreds of men about what makes a woman attractive to them). A woman’s smile tells a man that they are pleased with him and with her life. If women really knew and understood this they would be smiling all the time!
So many times, however, women tend to bring unnecessary drama into their relationship. It’s been noted that “Some women are more predisposed to drama than others — often finding occasions to manufacture the drama, much like a screenwriter purposely adds conflict to a story to make a screenplay more interesting.” I think this is may be a true statement about the majority of women.
The drama usually involves talking about their feelings and expressing their emotions — and men generally flee from such. There are four words in the English language that cause immediate dread in a man’s heart. Those words are a woman telling him, “We need to talk.” His usual reaction is “Oh no, what did I do now?” or “Oh <#@!$%>, not again!” Talking about feelings and expressing emotions — especially when it comes to relationships — is not something a man ranks high on his “feel good” chart.
Men are programmed to run from emotions — especially intense emotions. An occasional emotion-packed event or conversation is usually tolerable to a man, but when it becomes a constant pattern and you habitually involve him in ongoing drama, hs only recourse is to try to escape from the source of that drama — that is, you! So “Save the Drama for your Mama” and save your relationship too!
