How to Keep A Girlfriend – Simple Tips
Hey guys, found some interesting tips here on some things you should do to win over a girl’s heart or keep her heart is you’ve already won it. These tips for men come from a good source, a girl herself. She gives her views on what she thinks a guy should do. So gentlemen, take note.
1. Be nice to everyone (including animals), not just your crush. Girls notice these things and are touched by your kindness.
2. Find excuses/opportunities to talk to her. She’ll appreciate that you’re going out of your way to talk to her. (I.e. ask her ‘what time is it?’ to borrow a pencil or pen etc.) Be pleasant and by all means don’t pester her, but make each encounter a pleasant one.
3. When asking her out, don’t be afraid of her saying no, if she does, chances are she won’t be mean about it. But even if she doesn’t like you right now, she IS flattered that you’re paying attention to her. We all love to be noticed. She may say yes at a later time. Be persistent. Ask AGAIN!
4. If you have a girlfriend, include her in your life, don’t exclude her. If you play sports, ask her to come to one of your games and meet the team. Introduce her to your family. Do things that YOU like to do, except, with her. She wants to be a part of your life, not watching in from the outside.
5. Flattery is acceptable, and appreciated. BUT ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT. The key is to be observant. Notice little things about her, don’t just say ‘you’re beautiful’ all the time. If she wears her hair differently, tell her you like it. If she gets a new pair of shoes, notice them. Ask her about them, the complement her on them. (Hey, are those new shoes? Wow, their nice! ) Also, flatter her personality.
6. We all love surprises, they make us feel special and loved. The size of the gift is really not important if you do it often enough. I didn’t say PARTIES though. If your planning a surprise party, ask friends and family if she likes that kind of stuff first. This could be a recipe for disaster.
7. Innocently touch her whenever you can. If your nervous, try starting out by touching her arms or shoulder when you talk or when you’re walking. See how she reacts and go further if you get the ‘all clear’. Don’t grope or go crazy, that can be a real turn off.
8. Last of all. Just love her and let her love you. Learn to love her for who she is and not for what she does or what she has. Let her know you love her but also let her feel that you love her. That’s all she really wants. To love and be loved.
Hope it helps,
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