“Planning The First Date” Tips For Guys
Okay, so you finally got the hot chick to agree to go on a date with you – maybe you can pull it off on your own; but just in case you’re not the coolest guy on the planet, I have a two dating tips for guys. Yes, two of the most important dating tips of your life. Perhaps these tidbits into the female psyche may make the first date a little less painful for all those involved.
Big tip number 1 – If you ask a girl on a date – YOU have to plan the date. DO NOT EVER tell her that it’s up to her to decide, or you’ll do whatever she wants. LISTEN! Of course women like to be strong and independent and make their own decisions, but that’s later in the relationship. We need to know that our man is confident, smart and thoughtful – otherwise, he will never be our man!
Now that you understand – when you’re planning the date, don’t be stupid. Most first dates are very awkward to begin with. The two of you probably don’t know each other real well, and believe it or not, she is nervous too. Don’t make it weirder than it already is.
This leads me to…
Big tip number 2 – Go somewhere that you are not forced to make uncomfortable small talk for hours on end! I’m sorry to all you boring traditionalists that think that dinner and a movie is the ideal first date. It’s the ideal 53rd date! Go somewhere that you can relax and ease the pressure. Regardless of whether she is your soul mate or not, she is definitely going to find a reason to break-up with up with you if she doesn’t feel comfortable on the first date.
Think about these two dating tips guys – apply them, and maybe one day you will get a second date.
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