Tips on Handling A Stressful and Unhappy Relationship
If you are stressed and unhappy and it seems like you going in circles with your relationship here are some relationship tips and relationship advice to help you in your situation.
First, if you both have time, seek counseling together and allow things to be dealt with from both sides about the current situation. I recommend you not rush to any decisions on either side but rather set up an appointment as soon as you can with a counselor.
However, if the stress of the relationship is taking a heavy toll on you in terms of health and well-being it might be wise, despite your fear of being on your own, to end this relationship and look for a healthier one. One that will make you feel fulfilled and not overly dependent. Be honest with yourself if you sense that your stressful and unhappy relationship is leading no where. In this case I don’t think that the both of you going to counseling would have any positive results.
If you are getting nothing but negative feelings from this stressful and unhappy relationship and although there might be some good days, the bad outweigh the good, then maybe it’s time to step back and put the relationship on hold. Take some time away from them and see if your negative feelings diminish. With time you’ll get clearer vision as to what the relationship really means to you. Just don’t waste your life waiting for things to get better because chances are the probably wont.
If you are in a stressful and unhappy relationship I can understand the kind of pain you are in. If you’ve tried talking to your partner about how you feel and how mentally drained you are from the emotionally stress, maybe you need to listen to their side of the things. Maybe if you talk to them things may come to light which could enable you understand each other better.
It’s always a good idea to talk to them and try to understand things from their perspective, provided they are willing to reciprocate the same. If they are trying to be ruthless and bent upon having their way in the relationship, then put your foot down and just walk out of the relationship. If they are unwilling to care for you, love you , respect you, treat you nicely, honor your wishes then all they are doing is using you and emotionally abusing you. Sit yourself down, analyze how you feel, what and how they make you feel and then decide whether you’re a better person being with them or without them. If you find this difficult, try to analyze whether they bring out the best in you or the worst or somewhere in between. Hopefully this relationship advice will clear your mind and enable you to have a better understanding of what you should do and what you should choose.
